Life is what you make it. So why do we women make it so hard to find a good man? We set the expectations and raise the bar of what we want in a good man but end up settling for the no job having, weed smoking, curse you out, good for nothing types. I ask you again why?
The good man will bend over backwards to proclaim his love to you but you view that as he's a "punk". The good man will hold the door open, pull your chair open your car door but you see that as a weak man.
The good man sets time aside to spend time with you but you view it as he's crowding your space. Well guess what if you want a man to meet up to the check list you're creating then pay attention to the man in front of you doing the grand gesture to grab your attention. If not then like the ocean breeze it's just passing you by and you're eventually wasting your time seeking for what you call a good man.
Tuesday, July 19, 2011
Tuesday, July 12, 2011
In Search of satifcation.....
It seems that we are all searching for satisfation. Whether it be in life, our careers or our relationships. In the end we are never satisfied with what we have. Why is that? It's just a wonder why we can never be happy within our own skins. We allow the media to enter our lives and dictate how we should look, act, dance and think. Have we become mindless robots? What will it take for us to find that satisfaction within us?
Ladies and Gents what are your thoughts? Why are we so dissatisfied with what's right in front of our faces? I say WAKE-UP! and begin to take care of you, before you become so overwhelmed by the superficial and ungrateful objects in your life, that you disappear in knowing who you are.
Analyze that and treat yourself right. Until next week all. Don't forget to grab a treat...
Ladies and Gents what are your thoughts? Why are we so dissatisfied with what's right in front of our faces? I say WAKE-UP! and begin to take care of you, before you become so overwhelmed by the superficial and ungrateful objects in your life, that you disappear in knowing who you are.
Analyze that and treat yourself right. Until next week all. Don't forget to grab a treat...
Friday, July 8, 2011
The S.E.A.T
The S.E.A.T (Self-esteem of Empowerment in Achieving pride & Total control)- Coming Soon Life Coaching seminar;
Take a S.E.A.T and relax your feet.
The S.E.A.T has been idea that was generated from years of caring for children and adolescents in the foster care system and almost losing me in the process. We often become overwhelmed with others rather than putting ourselves first. You fall victim to bad relationships whether it be a family member, a lover or our employer. We become consumed with what others think and say and how to please everybody else in the world and forgetting who we are and allowing us to come first.
The S.E.A.T is designed to assist others in finding out who they are in their lives and reaching out for a life line to get their lives back on track by undertaking my services as a Life Coach and Psychotherapist.
I am in this business because I fell victim to forgetting my needs, goals and wants and almost lost myself to working for an establishment rather than working for myself and making my dreams come true. I serve all individuals seeking to put themselves first but having a hard time understanding the foundation and basic principle of how to attract the life they are seeking and finally evolving into achieving the happiness they deserve.
I will be able to guide you in creating a personal identity, developing spirituality, life purpose, enhancing communication skills, creating high quality relationships, understanding the past to create a desired future and more,
Always remember to do self-care first. I do come before you! Make sure others understand that self-esteem of empowerment in achieving pride and total control is your life goals. Without you being right how can you be there for others?
Take a S.E.A.T and relax your feet.
The S.E.A.T has been idea that was generated from years of caring for children and adolescents in the foster care system and almost losing me in the process. We often become overwhelmed with others rather than putting ourselves first. You fall victim to bad relationships whether it be a family member, a lover or our employer. We become consumed with what others think and say and how to please everybody else in the world and forgetting who we are and allowing us to come first.
The S.E.A.T is designed to assist others in finding out who they are in their lives and reaching out for a life line to get their lives back on track by undertaking my services as a Life Coach and Psychotherapist.
I am in this business because I fell victim to forgetting my needs, goals and wants and almost lost myself to working for an establishment rather than working for myself and making my dreams come true. I serve all individuals seeking to put themselves first but having a hard time understanding the foundation and basic principle of how to attract the life they are seeking and finally evolving into achieving the happiness they deserve.
I will be able to guide you in creating a personal identity, developing spirituality, life purpose, enhancing communication skills, creating high quality relationships, understanding the past to create a desired future and more,
Always remember to do self-care first. I do come before you! Make sure others understand that self-esteem of empowerment in achieving pride and total control is your life goals. Without you being right how can you be there for others?
Saturday, May 21, 2011
Stand firm on your beliefs
Long time friends but I had to take care of some things.
Tonight's commentary is on standing firm on your beliefs. It's funny how people want to test your intelligence and try and manipulate you into doing certain things that seem to steer you from the beliefs you based your life foundations on.
You will be faced with a lot of challenges, people will lure you with what you perceive are the finer things in life. But the reality is nothing in life is free unfortunately not even love (there's a thin line and a price to pay).
If you feel that you're unhappy with your job but you stay because you need money. If you're not content in a relationship or a marriage but you can't leave either due to the children or economic factors. Just keep in mind you have to treat your self right in order to stay right and to stand firmon your beliefs.
Do not ever allow anyone to take you out of your character or make you feel you are a no body. Keep in mind that you have to always put you first because who else will? Always do you first and never compromise what you know is right and are the basic core values that have shaped you as an individual.
Tonight's commentary is on standing firm on your beliefs. It's funny how people want to test your intelligence and try and manipulate you into doing certain things that seem to steer you from the beliefs you based your life foundations on.
You will be faced with a lot of challenges, people will lure you with what you perceive are the finer things in life. But the reality is nothing in life is free unfortunately not even love (there's a thin line and a price to pay).
If you feel that you're unhappy with your job but you stay because you need money. If you're not content in a relationship or a marriage but you can't leave either due to the children or economic factors. Just keep in mind you have to treat your self right in order to stay right and to stand firmon your beliefs.
Do not ever allow anyone to take you out of your character or make you feel you are a no body. Keep in mind that you have to always put you first because who else will? Always do you first and never compromise what you know is right and are the basic core values that have shaped you as an individual.
Sunday, January 30, 2011
ARE YOU SERIOUS?
Sometimes life kicks you good and hard. Sometimes you question what the F is all this worth? Sometimes you just got to get the courage and walk away before you lose all of who you once were. Then there's time when you want to come out and say are you serious? People can be so stupid, ignorant, racist and just plain mean. Are you serious? I even got a look for it and a pose when I have to address idiots about their rationale for doing the foolish ish they do. How many of you go a Are you Serious? moment or story for me?
Just remember don't let no one Disturb your positivity...continue to make your changes..Rise above the Hate and Haters... You know who you are..
Just remember don't let no one Disturb your positivity...continue to make your changes..Rise above the Hate and Haters... You know who you are..
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