June is the month of just being successful. To be successful you must decide exactly what you want to accomplish then resolve to pay the price to get it.
As an optimist it does not seem too much use being anything else because the art of being successful is within yourself. Trust yourself create the kind of self that you will be happy to live with all your life. You will be surprised to know how far you can go from the point where you thought it was the end.
Being successful allows you to evolve into the person you were intended to be. All we want in life is to be successful, whether its monetary or with love create your own success and learn to just be happy.
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Monday, June 18, 2012
Monday, June 11, 2012
MY WORTH
Before you can win, you have to believe you are worthy. Stop and think about the time, effort and energy you put into work, home, friends, family and that relationship. Did you ever calculate your worth?
Before you can truly put your best foot forward you have to know the value of your worth. Sit and process the endless nights and early mornings of working overtime and not getting the increase just a pat on the back with a "good job" saying-Seriously what's your worth?
Before you can say I do you have to know if he/she really worth you and you them? Fall back because this process is life changing where you need to know you first before you get to know he or she undeniable figure out your worth.
My worth is being secure in me to know no matter the challenges, disappointments and heartache, I can shout out my worth is my dignity and self-determination.
So calculate, be serious and fall back. Analyze that so we can analyze this.
Before you can truly put your best foot forward you have to know the value of your worth. Sit and process the endless nights and early mornings of working overtime and not getting the increase just a pat on the back with a "good job" saying-Seriously what's your worth?
Before you can say I do you have to know if he/she really worth you and you them? Fall back because this process is life changing where you need to know you first before you get to know he or she undeniable figure out your worth.
My worth is being secure in me to know no matter the challenges, disappointments and heartache, I can shout out my worth is my dignity and self-determination.
So calculate, be serious and fall back. Analyze that so we can analyze this.
Monday, June 4, 2012
INSPIRATION VS DESPERATION
In life you need either inspiration or desperation to get you moving. Inspiration can come in many forms so can desperation we can get into people, places and things because we are inspired to be around them. Then again we become so desperate that we seek out those same people, places and things for our own gratification.
We make choices based on inspiration we make decisions based on desperation we are who we are due to hard work and being inspired by greatness. We go down life paths eager to become someone or something we are not due to being desperate to fit in.
Why do you seek inspiration only in the end becoming desperate to obtain things not within our grasp. You tell me what's the difference with inspiration vs desperation? Answer you! You hold the power to decide if you want to be inspired or desperate for what you are looking for.
Analyze that so we can analyze this.
We make choices based on inspiration we make decisions based on desperation we are who we are due to hard work and being inspired by greatness. We go down life paths eager to become someone or something we are not due to being desperate to fit in.
Why do you seek inspiration only in the end becoming desperate to obtain things not within our grasp. You tell me what's the difference with inspiration vs desperation? Answer you! You hold the power to decide if you want to be inspired or desperate for what you are looking for.
Analyze that so we can analyze this.
Monday, May 28, 2012
WAIT AWHILE LONGER
Why as people who are in love or lust do we continue to get into situations that will just break our hearts? Why do we go back to less? Is it because we are too impatient to wait for the best?
We don't practice having patience in this world and often settle for what we have and convince ourselves we can make it last. NOT you can't make a person love you when they are in love with someone else and you can't make someone stop cheating if it's already engraved in his or her thoughts.
Don't worry about time moving on wait awhile longer in the path of obtaining love because you just settled for the here and now.
Analyze that so we can analyze this.
We don't practice having patience in this world and often settle for what we have and convince ourselves we can make it last. NOT you can't make a person love you when they are in love with someone else and you can't make someone stop cheating if it's already engraved in his or her thoughts.
Don't worry about time moving on wait awhile longer in the path of obtaining love because you just settled for the here and now.
Analyze that so we can analyze this.
Monday, May 21, 2012
BETTER DAYS
When things seem rough, people continue to betray you,misguide you and abuse you, look to knowing there will be better days. If you continue to feel that your are being targeted and have no idea why, confront that person eye to eye.
Listen we all go to work to make ends means but we have to stop thinking that we must eat, sleep and breath our work because in the end you are replaceable don't think you're not.
Search for your better days in knowing at the end of the day you are in your own space doing what you like to do. Do not allow others to dictate your happiness enjoy your better days on your own terms.
Analyze that so we can analyze this
Listen we all go to work to make ends means but we have to stop thinking that we must eat, sleep and breath our work because in the end you are replaceable don't think you're not.
Search for your better days in knowing at the end of the day you are in your own space doing what you like to do. Do not allow others to dictate your happiness enjoy your better days on your own terms.
Analyze that so we can analyze this
Monday, May 14, 2012
MAYBE YEAH-MAYBE NAY!
Maybe you should just say it! Stop bottling it up inside confront-be direct, don't waste your time.
Maybe you should just be silent let it be what it will be. Don't lose control ignore it and just let go.
Maybe it wasn't meant to be. The stares, the whispers, the glances and winks aren't worth losing it all is it?
Maybe now you realize if given into temptation causes all these anxieties imagine the guilt if you cheat!
Maybe just maybe you might be left standing alone.
Analyze that so we can analyze this.
Maybe you should just be silent let it be what it will be. Don't lose control ignore it and just let go.
Maybe it wasn't meant to be. The stares, the whispers, the glances and winks aren't worth losing it all is it?
Maybe now you realize if given into temptation causes all these anxieties imagine the guilt if you cheat!
Maybe just maybe you might be left standing alone.
Analyze that so we can analyze this.
Monday, May 7, 2012
MOTHER MAY I?
Does one really have to have given birth to know unconditional love? To all the women who stand strong, longing to be a mother, I salute you! Being a mother means dedication, guidance, standing by that youth, child and adult for life no matter they are wrong or right.
Mother may I ask permission to accept your love, time, patience and life long dedication to be in my life for life. Again, I salute all women who have proven their strength in being god parents, aunts, big sisters, wives, lovers, best friends and shinning brightly through bad times only as proof of more resilience.
Mother may I take this day to say thank you. We love you, we appreciate you-remember being a mother is more than just being able to go through childbirth. Being a mother means you can give love at no cost and expect nothing in return. To all the men raising children alone we salute you too.
Analyze that so we can analyze this.
Mother may I ask permission to accept your love, time, patience and life long dedication to be in my life for life. Again, I salute all women who have proven their strength in being god parents, aunts, big sisters, wives, lovers, best friends and shinning brightly through bad times only as proof of more resilience.
Mother may I take this day to say thank you. We love you, we appreciate you-remember being a mother is more than just being able to go through childbirth. Being a mother means you can give love at no cost and expect nothing in return. To all the men raising children alone we salute you too.
Analyze that so we can analyze this.
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