Understanding

It's been nearly 2 years and a couple of months since my silence.  There has been some transition in my life and difficulties in learning how to cope with loss and unexpected loss.  In time, I have learned that there are those you least expect to be by your side and those you most expected to be there were not.

I refuse to remain silent and allow other's to steal my joy.  I refuse to sit back and see thinks that are unacceptable occur without challenging others for their wrongs.  I refuse to not follow my dreams because you think it's risky.  I refuse to be still because I am a butterfly who is meant to be free!

In the last 2 years and few months I have grown and accepted my limitations, faults and imperfections! I am good because I understand me.  I have no patience for you to now want to get to know me.  Understand that I have no understanding for assisting you.

It's been 2 years and a few months and I am in a better place.  I have peace.  I have understanding.  I have me.  Why don't you analyze this so we can then analyze that! 

Glad to be back :)

It's Been Too Long

Sometimes you have to take a break.  Take a deep breath and set yourself free from yourself.  It's been too long since our last blog six months ago.  We needed time to address the mess in losing ourselves in the torment of  trying to prove ourselves.  You'd be surprised by the bullying and aggression one can put you through without realizing you are being tortured.

Never compromise yourself.  Never let someone tell you what you lack.  Never underestimate your own strength, passion and power.  A good friend told us to walk like Olivia Pope and regain control of who you are.  Never bow or back down to someone especially if it means losing yourself,

It's been too long but we are back! With fire and energy and ready for the world!

Analyze that so we can analyze this!

It my not be a weekly blog but we blogging again 😘

YOU NEVER KNOW!

You never know what you can handle until you are put to the test.  You never know your strength until you are in a position to fight back tears and have faith that you will make it through.  No one in life should mistreat anyone for there own gain.  In life you never know what tomorrow will bring,

People will test your kindness.  Make you feel inadequate. Try and make you doubt your potential and ability to have your own vision. People will try and get in your head make you see things there way.  But in life, you have values and morals.  You have family, you have friends and most importantly you have your own mind.

Never ever, allow misery of others determine your path.  Hold on to your faith, your self-esteem and your confidence.  You are who you are if no one appreciates it then they never were for you they were for themselves.  In life, you will learn the good, the bad and the ugly!

Analyze that so we can analyze this!

HUMBLE & RESPECT

Focus on today and tomorrow stop living in the past. You can't change what has already happened you can only learn from it and not repeat it now. 

Remember the ones that stood by you and always had your back. Remember the times someone tried to disrespect you and you had people reply back on your behalf. 

Don't lose focus and don't forget the folks that have never wavered and has always been in your corner. Be humble and respect not only yourself but the ones that have never left. 

Analyze that so we can analyze this!  

NO WORRIES!

So do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will take care of itself.  When we start focusing on things we have no control over we become anxious and make ourselves sick. 

No one has power over our well-being but Yourself. You choose to get into doing things that are not realistic. You make choices no one forces you into anything for we all have free will. We all know right from wrong. We all have rights. 

We must stop staying stuck in a box. Gain back self-control and our happiness. Declare your freedom from stifled thinking. Gain insight and make your moves. Stop worrying about tomorrow and take care of today. 

Analyze that so we can analyze this!

LOVE THY SELF

Don't let someone dim your light simply because it's shining in their eyes. Happiness is found when you stop comparing yourself to other people.

We have to always love ourselves first and foremost before we start saying we in life be with someone else. You really have to sit by yourself for a few hours, days or a week to understand who you are and what you want out of life. 

Stop expecting from others what you wouldn't do for yourself. Be real! Be authentic! Love Thy Self First. Learn to respect yourself. 

Analyze that so we can analyze this!

OPINIONS DO MATTER

Today I'm sitting back watching the news with a smile in my heart. We are taking steps to say yes a woman can be President of the United States.  I don't usually do this,  but today, we need to really reflect on what is happening in this world we live in.

This is my opinion and I am entitled to it.  I have a right to openly say not everything and everyone is all bad.  The issues with our teen girls doing inappropriate acts is due to underlying trauma, environment and not having activities and resources in the communities.  I have said it before we need to take back control of seeing something, say something.  We can't continue to turn a blind eye to these children.  

I want to retire comfortably not anxiously based on our children not having the common sense to succeed in life.  We have to start with our girls they are the most shattered and vulnerable.  They are being lured into trafficking, stealing and being told they will amount to nothing.  It's time for us to get control of these girls and make them feel valued and loved.  This is strictly my opinion.

Analyze that so we can analyze this!