WHAT I NEED IS UNDERSTANDING

Misunderstandings often erupt due to differences in what is being said or done.  Misunderstandings require deeper understanding.  We all want the same thing; security, safety, abundance, wholeness, opportunities, love, respect and peace of mind and heart.

We have to get a clear understanding of what our needs and wants are in order to understand the desire and needs of others.

What I need is understanding.  Communication and pure honesty that leads to 100% trust.

Can we all say we have that understanding in our current relationships?

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FORGIVE

Forgiveness may sometimes seem daunting but it is essential for self progress.  If you hold resentment, blame or un-forgiveness in your heart you lose balance.  Realize when you are willing to forgive and let go of anger and guilt you feel brand new and positive.

When you forgive you are not granting anyone permission to harm you or someone else you are simply releasing the energy that you carried about mistakes you and others have made.  The past is the past move forward with compassion love and kindness towards yourself and others.

As you forgive you can change your thoughts, words and action.

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EXPECTATION

Some people anticipate family gatherings with joyful expectation others with a sense of dread.  Expectation is actually a powerful state of mind that shapes our experiences.  If I am expecting an unpleasant experience I may be replaying a painful past rather than recreate the same experience, I change my expectation.

The past exist only in memory so let go and begin anew.  Regardless what happens around you remain centered in what happens within you.  Be compassionate and kind.  Release the need to change others.  Embrace positive expectations.  Let go of the past that stagnates your present and lead to your future.

Expect nothing and receive everything!

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SOMETIMES WE HAVE THOSE DAYS

Some days I'm up some days I'm down.  Somedays I wish I weren't't around.  It's difficult to let go of someone when you have given your all to make things work.  Sometimes you have to face hard facts and learn to let go.

Sometimes you have to love yourself before you allow someone to love you.  There's no need to continue the pain of a broken heart.  Don't allow someone to tell you they'll love you and be there for you when you don't comprehend self love.

Sometimes rock bottom hits hard and then you learn that you have to stand strong.  Acquire the skills of self sufficiency don't allow one person to drive you crazy due to a broken heart.

Sometimes you just got to be brave.  Somedays it will just be you.  Sometimes it's just fine to be at peace.

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I WANT TO SAY THANK YOU!

Sit back and reminisce on what your expectation really are.  What really inspires you or deters you?  There is so much to be thankful for, don't you think?  We often complain about the little things that just don't make sense.  We argue and fight with one another and get nowhere at the end of the day.

Personally I want to say thank you for those that have entered and existed my life because they all played a role in who I am today.  We must be thankful for relationships old, new or lost because they shaped us and gave us memories to look back on.

So, I say thank you with a smile, a little mist in my eyes and a tear drop falling to help you understand that despite our differences I wish you the best.

I want to say thank you for giving me the ability to know I must love me before anyone else.

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LOVES KNOCKING AT MY DOOR

The greatest accomplishment in life is knowing, feeling and being loved or in love.  Few of us really know what live is.  Some think having sex is being in love, when the reality is that love can be the simple jester of holding hands and making it your business to know what the other likes and dislikes and what it takes to make that person smile.

Too many of us have screwed up thoughts and misconceptions of what the word LOVE is.  The lessons of love are not too late to learn.  We have to allow our hearts to be open to receive love and trust that other person.  It will be hard because we have been hurt before but it is time to let love back in through the door.  KNOCK! KNOCK! Will you answer?

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I DID MY BEST

"I did my best but I guess my best wasn't good enough cause here we are back to where we were before.  Seems like nothing ever changes we're back to being strangers wondering if we oughta stay or head on out the door". James Ingram

Can you honestly say you have truly done your best in being honest and faithful to one another? Have you really did your best in keeping each other happy and making yourself happy?

Stop pretending your life is perfect  people can see through your window that's beginning shatter.  No one will judge you for doing what you need to do for you.  If others judge so what! They are not you and will never be you.  As long as you know you did your best then that's all that matters now you must move forward.

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