Stop Being Phoney

Why is it that when you see a FINE guy you start to act silly to the point you look down right stupid?

why is it you get around business men and you act like you have worked on Wall Street when the truth of the matter is your only real job was working at the corner store?

Why is it that you can't be comfortable in your own skin that you have to take on someone else's identity?

Can't you see we see through your mask? Be yourself people can't like who you really are if they have never met the real you. Ever wonder why marriages don't often last? Answer: we pretend during the honeymoon phase that we are who the person wants us to be then we reveal who we truly are once the license is signed and we in our decorated homes behind closed doors. Most importantly once the bank account says joint! He/She is a whole different person.

I say #Stopbeingphoney -Be true to you! Treat U Right and let's discuss to analyze this to understand the that!

Thank You

At times it may seem difficult to uter the words Thank You, to someone in your life that you take for granted in your life because you have a belief they must do for you because that's just the way it is. It's ashame that we forget how to have manners and the basic life skills to say the word Thank You, for: picking up groceries, holding the door, getting my messages or paying my bill.

It is bad enough we believe we have a birth right to just use our parents but what about the carelessness we enter in, when we disrespect our spouses and get comfortable and complacent in thinking yeah he/she will handle what needs to be handled and not say Thank You to them for making sure: the mortgage, cable, electricity and cell bill were paid for. Better yet, the kids were attended to and you have no worries at this time because they took care of it all. Where's the Thank You?

Basically, we as partners need to acknowledge our misbehaving and selfish ways before we lose that person in our life because we showed no appreciation. So for all you forgetful ladies and gents let me help you say Thank You, to that special person in your life that makes your life so easy and stress free.

Stop taking people for granted and thank your lucky stars you have someone that has your back. Analyze that so we can talk about this- What do you think do people in your life deserve for you to be courteous and thankful to them? if not why?

Don't Take It Personal

Don't take it personal when i wanna be all alone...Don't take it personal (Monica)


Sometimes we are seeking a time out. there's nothing wrong with wanting to be alone. This time out gives us the clarity we need to make decisions or to just de-stress. Why do we get so much attitude and grief when we're trying to work on our self-care? People need to stop being selfish and taking it so personal when we just don't want company.

Maybe people are offended by the delivery of how we say we want to be left alone. Seriously do we care what they think when all we're looking for is peace,tranquility and relaxation for just 1 to 2 hours in the day.

Don't take it personal we just trying to get a little me time so our mind is right in order to deal with the drama he/she or they may bring into our lives, can you analyze that?

Self-respect and Intergrity

Do you often feel disappointed or let down when others betray your trust? Do you feel something in the pit of your stomach when you hold others high on a pedestal only to witness they have lied in your face like Judas betrayed Jesus?

I question that persons self-respect and integrity. What values do people hold today? What shapes a persons thoughts when they are opening up their mouths and saying insane things without thinking first?

I am curious by peoples actions and in seeing their erratic behaviors makes me wonder what can that person do to you or me behind our back if they can lie straight in our faces?

Question: What defines your self-respect and integrity? Better yet, has society lost all its morals and obligation to educate and raise children with the correct ethics, morals and values?

Letting Go!

When you let go of the anger, frustration and most importantly the resentment you will:

• lose weight


• gain years on your life


• enjoy the company of others


• become more active and motivated to seek success


• look in the mirror and recognize the real you


• gain focus on what you need in life


• love you for you

Again how do you obtain the above? Simple answer, let go of the baggage, hate and animosity.

Some people people drop the 200+ lbs; the girlfriend/boyfriend, wife/husband, jump off/affair and they gain their sanity back and can clearly think again.

With the way they world is going we must let go of whatever it is that is holding, hindering and dragging us down.

Let Go! in order to achieve life happiness the way you want it.

Remember analyze this so we can continue to analyze that!