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Monday, March 26, 2012

AWARENESS

The month of March has been about bringing awareness to many social issues.  I often wonder if we apply the same awareness to our own lives.  Are we aware of who we really are dating, falling in love with or marrying?  Do you know their favorite color, food or movie?  Do they know yours?

It's sad.  Are you aware that we live in a generation of not falling in love and staying together?  People don't take the time to figure out what they want .  They don't put in the effort in being aware of their own needs-we all need some self awareness and to not jump into all these different relationships or stay in one because everyone else is doing it.  Grow-up already.  Stop being a follower be original before you remain in a state of misery.

Get yourself together-learn the awareness of whose around you and what you need versus what you want because the want is what will fail you.

Analyze that so you can analyze this

Monday, March 19, 2012

PREPARATIONS

They say always be prepared for those unknown emergencies.  How can you be prepared for something you have no idea is about to happen? They say don't wait for disaster to occur plan ahead.  Again, we don't have a crystal ball to know what's next.  What we do have is our basic instincts, values and knowledge.

Start preparing for the little things, like having a flash light within reach or obtaining life insurance. Then we stop and think about how do we prepare for your partner, lover or friend leaving you without seeing the signs?  Ladies and gents, the signs were there you just chose to ignore them.  Begin to prepare to know that nothing last forever and cherish each day like it's your last.

Prepare your mind to be right-you have an innate resilience and survival is within your blood.  There is no real way to be prepared for life's mysteries you just have to be ready for what will be.

Analyze that so we can analyze this.

Monday, March 12, 2012

MY TURN

Do good things really happen for those that wait?  Sometimes you have to process and distinguish your wants from your needs and stand up for what you believe.  Stop waiting for your turn-my turn just do it!

You have to realize that perhaps your turn may never come unless you make it come.  You have to voice your feelings and not be shy to say what you mean and mean what you say.

Everyday is your turn-my turn be up front with yourself, stay on top of what's relevant to your dreams.  If you're looking for someone else to assist you in reaching your goals than keep fooling yourself and keep waiting for them "my turn" success.

Be vigilant-aspire to reach the top and don't worry about the talks behind your back.  That just means you're important and it's your turn to shine.  Don't waste time, grasp your opportunities its your turn-my turn to be great!

Analyze that so we can analyze this.

Monday, March 5, 2012

TRUST

When you trust someone it means you allow them into your life 100%.  You're personal business, the way you thing, behave and where you go and who you like and dislike.  To trust someone means you give your all and believe this person will never deceive you.

It's hard to know who to trust because no relationship is ever perfect and people go through their ups and downs throughout life.  People can appear to be one thing and behind your backs are deceitful.  No one can tell you who to trust just be mindful that sometimes when someone else knows something don't be surprised that what you have said to them comes right out their mouths to someone else.

We all have emotions and we are very reactive.  If you trust someone who you know is a hot head then, you're setting yourself up for failure and your trust will be shattered.  Do your homework, define trust look at who you confide in and think long and hard.  Maybe you should trust your journal or go to a confessional.

Analyze that so we can analyze this.