Have you ever gave someone your all expecting nothing but love in return? Has that person ever even given you a glance or have you always felt a little used because they always pushed you away to do something or be with someone else.
There's so much wrong in the way we handle our relationship and the way we treat ourselves. Why do we never put our wants and needs first? Why is it wrong for us to be selfish when others walk all over us time and time again?
How come we never say t o ourselves we never say to ourselves we deserve a break and here is what I am going to do for myself? How come we work so damn hard to take care of home but the people at home don't really give a damn about us? It's mostly can you, give me, I need, I want--Never have you heard, what do you want or need.
Well people can the U finally come before the I for once? What plan are you finally going to put in place that will qualify as you coming first this time? Example: I am going to put $50.00 a paycheck away for a monthly facial--your turn..until next time analyze this so we can analyze that!
Tuesday, July 26, 2011
Tuesday, July 19, 2011
Ocean Breeze
Life is what you make it. So why do we women make it so hard to find a good man? We set the expectations and raise the bar of what we want in a good man but end up settling for the no job having, weed smoking, curse you out, good for nothing types. I ask you again why?
The good man will bend over backwards to proclaim his love to you but you view that as he's a "punk". The good man will hold the door open, pull your chair open your car door but you see that as a weak man.
The good man sets time aside to spend time with you but you view it as he's crowding your space. Well guess what if you want a man to meet up to the check list you're creating then pay attention to the man in front of you doing the grand gesture to grab your attention. If not then like the ocean breeze it's just passing you by and you're eventually wasting your time seeking for what you call a good man.
The good man will bend over backwards to proclaim his love to you but you view that as he's a "punk". The good man will hold the door open, pull your chair open your car door but you see that as a weak man.
The good man sets time aside to spend time with you but you view it as he's crowding your space. Well guess what if you want a man to meet up to the check list you're creating then pay attention to the man in front of you doing the grand gesture to grab your attention. If not then like the ocean breeze it's just passing you by and you're eventually wasting your time seeking for what you call a good man.
Tuesday, July 12, 2011
In Search of satifcation.....
It seems that we are all searching for satisfation. Whether it be in life, our careers or our relationships. In the end we are never satisfied with what we have. Why is that? It's just a wonder why we can never be happy within our own skins. We allow the media to enter our lives and dictate how we should look, act, dance and think. Have we become mindless robots? What will it take for us to find that satisfaction within us?
Ladies and Gents what are your thoughts? Why are we so dissatisfied with what's right in front of our faces? I say WAKE-UP! and begin to take care of you, before you become so overwhelmed by the superficial and ungrateful objects in your life, that you disappear in knowing who you are.
Analyze that and treat yourself right. Until next week all. Don't forget to grab a treat...
Ladies and Gents what are your thoughts? Why are we so dissatisfied with what's right in front of our faces? I say WAKE-UP! and begin to take care of you, before you become so overwhelmed by the superficial and ungrateful objects in your life, that you disappear in knowing who you are.
Analyze that and treat yourself right. Until next week all. Don't forget to grab a treat...
Friday, July 8, 2011
The S.E.A.T
The S.E.A.T (Self-esteem of Empowerment in Achieving pride & Total control)- Coming Soon Life Coaching seminar;
Take a S.E.A.T and relax your feet.
The S.E.A.T has been idea that was generated from years of caring for children and adolescents in the foster care system and almost losing me in the process. We often become overwhelmed with others rather than putting ourselves first. You fall victim to bad relationships whether it be a family member, a lover or our employer. We become consumed with what others think and say and how to please everybody else in the world and forgetting who we are and allowing us to come first.
The S.E.A.T is designed to assist others in finding out who they are in their lives and reaching out for a life line to get their lives back on track by undertaking my services as a Life Coach and Psychotherapist.
I am in this business because I fell victim to forgetting my needs, goals and wants and almost lost myself to working for an establishment rather than working for myself and making my dreams come true. I serve all individuals seeking to put themselves first but having a hard time understanding the foundation and basic principle of how to attract the life they are seeking and finally evolving into achieving the happiness they deserve.
I will be able to guide you in creating a personal identity, developing spirituality, life purpose, enhancing communication skills, creating high quality relationships, understanding the past to create a desired future and more,
Always remember to do self-care first. I do come before you! Make sure others understand that self-esteem of empowerment in achieving pride and total control is your life goals. Without you being right how can you be there for others?
Take a S.E.A.T and relax your feet.
The S.E.A.T has been idea that was generated from years of caring for children and adolescents in the foster care system and almost losing me in the process. We often become overwhelmed with others rather than putting ourselves first. You fall victim to bad relationships whether it be a family member, a lover or our employer. We become consumed with what others think and say and how to please everybody else in the world and forgetting who we are and allowing us to come first.
The S.E.A.T is designed to assist others in finding out who they are in their lives and reaching out for a life line to get their lives back on track by undertaking my services as a Life Coach and Psychotherapist.
I am in this business because I fell victim to forgetting my needs, goals and wants and almost lost myself to working for an establishment rather than working for myself and making my dreams come true. I serve all individuals seeking to put themselves first but having a hard time understanding the foundation and basic principle of how to attract the life they are seeking and finally evolving into achieving the happiness they deserve.
I will be able to guide you in creating a personal identity, developing spirituality, life purpose, enhancing communication skills, creating high quality relationships, understanding the past to create a desired future and more,
Always remember to do self-care first. I do come before you! Make sure others understand that self-esteem of empowerment in achieving pride and total control is your life goals. Without you being right how can you be there for others?
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