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Monday, December 26, 2011

THE LITTLE THINGS

In life, it's the little things that truly matter and count.  You have memories that are irreplaceable smiles of your children or nieces and nephews that never leave your mind.  Wishes you make as children and friendships that can never be broken.

In life as we grow older we realize the value of things that have been done for us.  We pick up a picture and reminisce on love obtained, lost and re found.  We cherish the sweet pecks that turn into passionate kisses and hugs we never want to forget.

In life we recognize tomorrow is never promised but we live for today-for today honor the little things that aren't materialistic.  Respect the friendships, remember the lovers and worship your present but remind yourself if what is or who is presently in your life doesn't understand the little things you do and thank you for them, then you must decide if they, he or she is worth you remaining.

Analyze that so we can analyze this...

Monday, December 19, 2011

AND THIS TOO SHALL PASS

It's so very hard to say good-bye to anyone that leaves our lives.  The saying "and this too shall pass" is so far removed when we are going through our tragedy.  The feeling of emptiness, loneliness and sadness consumes our being how can we get through these tough times?  What helps is having someone to talk to who won't judge and will just listen.

In relationships we invest enough to receive what we put into it.  It's hard to explain how you feel when the person you have given your all to has disappeared, fallen sick, is unfaithful or passes away.  We continue to hear "and this too shall pass" but when will our heart begin to heal again?  Will we ever find love again?

The saying, "And this too shall pass" often ignites anger that someone would utter these words but once it sets into our minds we realize that life does go on and it's true what once caused us hurt and we thought we could never get through, we actually did "And This Too Shall Pass,"  has indeed passed.

Analyze that so we can analyze this

Monday, December 12, 2011

FORGIVENESS

As the year begins its countdown to 2012 the question of forgiveness is unavoidable.  Why go into the New Year holding onto baggage and grudges?  One great lesson learnt is anger towards another only weighs you down and causes you to become miserable and sick.

Forgive your: parents, lover, spouse, kids, teacher, siblings, uncle, aunt, cousin, in-laws, boss, friend, co-worker etc.  Just say out loud, I FORGIVE YOU! Avoid the sarcasm, snide remarks and just let go-forgiving is more so for your peace of mind not for who you are forgiving.

People, even you make mistakes and deserve a change to show redemption.  Forgiving someone else lifts such a load upon your heart and adds years to your life.  Let go and forgive-show you are the bigger person and that you possess understanding, compassion and kindness. 

I said forgive but let us not forget because in the same breath, we don't want to be a fool twice in life.  Forgive to allow the relationships to rebuild at its own pace.

Analyze that so we can analyze this.

Monday, December 5, 2011

LOVE WITHOUT A LIMIT

When you fall in love-real true love, where your heart beats when you hear this persons voice on the phone, smell the cologne or perfume, your stomach aches when they go away-that's love.  Question is what is your limit in loving someone.

Love these days seems like there is no limit.  Young girls allow themselves to be pumped by these boys they think love them.  Girls are willing to hide drugs for these boyfriends.  These boyfriends are openly disrespecting there mothers for these girls and both sexes are going to jail for the other.  What is the limit to loving someone?

What happened to the getting to know you phase, dinners and the movies?  Now, it's kiss, sex and sex with my friends too, after you sex me.  Kids having kids thinking it's love only to realize a majority of what they thought was love was a joke or rather another number added to say they slept with he or she.

Let's get back to the simple love-rather than doing anything and thinking it's Love Without A Limit that type of love only ends badly.

Analyze that so we can analyze this,