MAKING A CHANGE

As the season changes I find it quit comforting to make a n inner change for myself. this is the perfect time to reflect on accomplishments, setting new goals and remaining focused on your own needs.

Making a change takes a lot of self-reflection and taking a good hard look at who is starring back at you in the mirror. Do you like the person who is looking back at you? If not then what change are you willing to make?

In making a change whether at a new job, new relationship or a new path in self-improvement, we have to be true to ourselves and acknowledge we are not perfect but embrace the fact that we can identify a glitch, take criticism and self-improve.

Making a change doesn't mean losing who you are its about adapting to who you are shaping to be. Make a change for your not for no one else. What change are you making in your life today or tomorrow?

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Enough is Enough

When do you think a man or woman should walk away from a relationship?

Does one wait for an affair to come to light? Does one call it quits when the other becomes unemployed, sick or hitting rock bottom? Do we view people who ask for a divorce as cowards? Is it our place to judge someones relationships when we know nothing about what happens behind closed doors?

Question for the couples, what happened to the vows you took in front of your family and friends? Remember,for better or for worst, for richer or for poorer in sickness and in health wait the best one, till death do us part. These vows are hard but anything worth fighting for takes hard work-but when you believe you have done all you can do then, its time to say Enough is Enough and walk away with a mutual understanding rather than an order of protection.

Guess we shouldn't judge someone for their choices. Sometimes, relationships are what they are. If one person is progressing and the other is stagnant you can either motivate your partner or walk away when you have had enough. Have you had enough with your significant other? if so what are your next steps?

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DETOX TIME

How do you detox from toxic people in your life? Especially when they are family? The greatest support in your endeavors should come from your family and best friends but what occurs when the ones you think are on your side turn out to be the ones wishing bad upon you and want to kick you down and stab you in the back.




Remedy-Cure-Analysis-tell them to kick rocks! they don't pay your bills, write you a check or are your first thoughts when you get out of bed and need help. Learn to be your own best friend and like a detox tea-flush them out!




Negative people in your life are parasites they eat at you bit by bit until they see your bones. Lesson learned- If you know the people around you are toxic re-evaluate why you need them so close in your circle then little by little contact them less and less-they'll get the point.




In order for you to strive and make your own difference weed out the new growth, cut it at the root so it never reappears.




Who do you need to detox from? Analyze that so we can analyze this.

KNOW YOUR LIMIT

There seems to be a lot of times in which someone wants to test your will power or how far the can get what they can get of of you. It's up to you, the individual to set your boundaries to how and when enough is enough.

People are happy to take your kindness as weakness and keep draining you until you are useless to their needs and wants. If you give an inch oh boy! he/she/they will take a mile.

Know what you are saying yes or OK to with open eyes. Don't be no body's fool the bad guy in saying NO. It shows you can draw the line and you have control of what yo can and cannot do.

Listen, you're human, you're kind but you're not to be used!

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