MASK

It's Halloween people-year round we from time to time become people we think others want us to be.  Be mindful of your enemies but be more attentive to those around you in your circle that smile very wide in your face.  These are the people with the mask that will turn on you first.

Time will reveal who wars the authentic smile and whose heart is in the right placefrom those in sheep clothing, plotting to destroy your success-don't always seem like your are the victim because there are times when we ourselves wear these same exact mask-we're not perfect.

Question, what do you do when you find out your lover, spouse or soul mate are the ones wearing the mask?  what happens when the eureaka moment occurs and you realize the relationships you have been involved in were all illusions covered up.

Answer-clear up your rose colored glasses, wash your eyes and confront the masked person and be rid of the phoniness-there's no need to continue the charade unless you too were aware of how the relationship stood and you too love the masquerade.

Analyze that so we can analyze this..

PLEASE NO LABELS NEEDED

Just because you get married does it mean you have to take his last name? Is this a problem if you don't?

Why do people use labels to describe women that are assertive we get called the B-word, or we hear that we are too bossy or if we so happen to see a successful handsome man that we want to get to know better we are immediately called a gold digger.

Please stop with the labels and women, what's up with calling your man big poppa, daddy or sugar daddy? What happened to boo or babe? Those other labels suggest negative connotation.

Men and women learn how to respect each other. Watch the labels you use, some are offensive and derogatory. Respect your woman as long as she has dignity and self-worth you have no justification for the nasty labels. And women, don't start the negative label calling on a man and then turn around and get upset if he sinks to your level. Basically, do not give each other an opening to place pathetic and disrespectful labels on each other-take pride in yourself at all times.

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SO SICK

There are times when you get so sick to your stomach its unexplainable. doctors have no cure-they seem baffled-confused and recommend that you just get some good old fashion rest.

Here's some ideas to what's really making you so sick-it's yourself. Look in the mirror. You have become so sick of what you have allowed yourself to become. You are sadden by the weight gain, weight loss, love gone and forgotten, a spouse under the same roof that just doesn't acknowledge your worth. Who wouldn't be so sick after realizing you have lost who you one were.

How do we get out of being sick and having this sickness? What could possibly be the cure?

Step 1. Know your self-worth
Step2. Say what you mean and stand firm on what you believe
Step3. Open the door and sweep him/her out
Step 4. Look in the mirror the extra pounds you had put on are gone, your tears have stopped, your head is clear and you can finally recognize the person starring back at you in the mirror.

No need to be so sick anymore-Analyze that so we can analyze this!

IS IT OVER NOW?

Now just wait a minute? Did he/she just say that they needed space? Where did that come from? There were never any signs of unhappiness? Come now really! Didn't you notice how he/she would start saying they're working late or they're meeting friends for dinner or a long lost family member is in town?

Didn't you realize that the couple things you use to do began to fizzle down-no more movie night, family events, going out to dinner but now you're both doing those things with your "friends." When did the relationship change?

When did the I care for you, the I love yous stop? When did the love making every other day become once every 3 months? Let me guess did he/she use the excuse for not having sex because they were too tired, have a headache or the latest line, sex is so overrated!

BEWARE! the above means he/she just has lost interest in the relationship. Now the ball is in your court- do you care to fix it and get the love and attention back or do your own thing and move on? Don't be left standing alone asking is it over now when right now you can make a change and reinvent your relationship before it truly is over.

Analyze that so we ca analyze this.

LIFE IS WHAT YOU MAKE IT

As the season has clearly changed in temperature and on the calendar and our clocks will soon be turned back an hour, let us not put our dreams backwards as well. One must be thirsty for achieving success. You cannot imagine that success will just fall into your laps.

I learned that in life the things you want and think you need most do not come so easy-if it did, then it wasn't meant for you. Basically, life is what you make it-either you are going to persevere or fall flat on your face-but at least you tried and did not just let the hour, days and years go by and expect something to happen for you magically when you have not put the effort in obtaining that dream.

Stand firm today and begin to reflect on what your plans are for your life. Begin to bullet out your concepts and ideas of what you want to do. No idea is stupid. Write it down and analyze how you would accomplish what needs to get done. This is your life. Make it the best life ever.

How are you going to define your life and carve it out to what you want it to be? After all, life is what you make it! Analyze that so we can finally analyze this.